I have a family in need of help. The Toland family consists of 3 daughters under age of 5 that there father is dying of terminal rectal cancer. Diagnosed at 30 while serving in Germany for US army, he moved back to home town and purchased home he grew up in, which need a lot of work. He has been receiving chemo as maintenance for tumors in lymph nodes, rectum, lungs and liver. Also, has been going to AZ for alt treatments the weeks opposite of chemo. He just found out the 16th of sept that chemo is not working and to make preparations. He will be leaving behind 3 young daughters with little or no memory of their daddy. He is such an inspiration to me and my family because in spite of it all, he never complains. His house is growing mold in attic,septic is shot, no bathroom on 1st floor and if he is to receive hospice, he will not be able to die at home with family because his house is not capable of that dream of his. His medical bills are outrageous and when he does go, his family will be left with nothing because his med bills are so much. He really wants to be able to stay home with his family but does not have monies to renovate his house. The house needs so much work and I am begging anyone that can help. They live in Sheldon, NY (attica) and need support and prayers from everyone. Please, if anyone can help them please pray for the ability to be able to let him die with dignity and be able to renovate home to be with kids and wife. His wife is unable to work due to Roberts doc apts, chemo and cost of child care. Please I beg of you or anyone to help.
31 yr old father of three dying
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